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In 1988, a song came over the air waves by Bobby McFerrin called “Don’t Worry. Be Happy.” The song was a simple solution to complex problems, but was a good song to remember when things got hard and you needed to lighten up a bit! It was the first a cappella song to make it big! Part of the lyrics are “in every life we have some trouble….” and The Whos thought of this song as they wrote this post.
It has been raining cats and dogs lately. So, you hear lots of cheers as well as lots of curses. People have their own reasons and their own likes and dislikes, so we are happy and not happy accordingly.
A friend of Yun’s loves swimming. She would swim everyday if she could. So, Sunny days are her best friends. She is as cheerful as the sunshine, bubbling with joy for life. The past months have been unpleasant for her with all the rain and thunder and overcasting sky. You hear her complaints more about things in life. It seems when the Sun and clouds are not collaborating, nothing else in the world works. She has the excuse to be unhappy, and she makes it clear and she sticks to it.
Well, it so happens, that an old friend of Yun’s is a gardener! He loves gardening and has a house on the hill with lots of land to tinker with. However, friends joke with him and call him “such a grumpy old man” because he has such strong political positions. Unfortunately, our political environment has not been to his liking for many years. But lately, instead of politics, he sings the praises of how wonderful the rain has been, how refreshing the air smells and how lush his garden is now….On and on, he is beaming with cheers and joy. He is happy for a very good reason, and he makes clear of that.
One day, after a chat with both of them back to back, Yun starts to laugh and marvel at the human’s incredible capacity to be happy or to be unhappy. The physicist Yun said to the artist Cece, ” It is almost like in scientific research… one makes a hypothesis, and starts to design an experiment to collect data to prove the hypothesis. In most cases, one manages to find the data to prove that your hypothesis is correct!” Cece giggles too.
Why is it that we allow our minds to take such control of us that we determine our happiness by the rain or the current political climate or whether we can swim or not? What if we enjoyed each moment as it presents itself…and what if we could be here now…and relish in the very moment we are in…whether we are driving or walking or working or doing a repetitive task? Could we perhaps find joy in those little moment by moment things that are happening right now? What if our mind went astray and went to being unhappy about the political climate? Could we re-direct it into the here and now and focus on this moment only?
If we decide to be happy, we will find the reasons. If we decide not to be happy, we can find the reasons too…. The reasons for both are only in our mind’s eyes. Make sure that what your mind’s eye sees is working for you… not against you “Don’t worry, be happy” and make it so!
“Bye for Now” from The Two Whos